How...

I don’t understand how can you smile all day long, but cry yourself to sleep at night. How pictures never change, but the people in them do. How you can love so innocently, but it can turn into anger so quickly. How your best friend can become your worst enemy. Or when your worst enemy turns into your best friend. How forever turns into a few short months that you'd do almost anything to get back. How you can let go of something you once said you couldn’t live without. How even though you know letting go of something is best for you, it hurts just the same. How the people who once wanted to spend every second with you, think a few minutes of their time is too much time to spare. How people make promises, and bear their souls to someone despite knowing how common it is for promises to be broken. How people can erase you from their lives ‘cause it’s just easier then working things out.

Happy Love

Today on my way home I was passing by one flower-shop & noticed a phrase on the window framed “Happy Love”. Well, I guess it might have written there for a long time but I noticed it only today:)…I looked at this note and thought if there really exists Happy Love, if there is a real irresistible- conscious feeling that u can do it ?
But while I was pondering on it I caught sight of one old couple walking near that flower-shop, gently holding each other’s hands. They haven’t done anything extraordinary they simply lived the whole life together…some 50 or 60 years:). This made me to remember about my friends’ love stories, those ones who went through thick and thin, lived bad times, but they earned each other finally.
Today I want to congratulate all my friends who r in love. Guys if u r sure he/she is that into you, if u do love each other, if the only thought of being apart already causes a pain, then never let all these disappear, never burn it, u will never find it again, fight for ur love, find compromises, don’t let stupid things be so huge and meaningful to destroy the greatest feeling created somewhere high in the sky. Take care of ur love, water it like a flower, work on it & u will gain ur deserved fruits.
Never listen to anyone, do ur choice if there’s one who is worth, fight for him/her. All those who r happy to give advices to do things in their ways have no idea how it actually works, don’t listen to them.
Create ur own love story, live for it & Im sure one day it will be worthily called “Happy”, and it will be the proof for my theory and I will be blessed no matter the fact that my life is proving me the opposite :)…..I still hopelessly believe in Love. Now I’m sure that no one can ever change it. I am hopeless :)
be happy, Dears !

WHERE ARE THE KNIGHTS OF THE 21TH CENTURY.....

Our world needs real heroes not mystic or imaginative like in fantastic movies but real men from real life. Lately I was thinking that our everyday life somehow lacks of great acts ......of real gentlemen....yes its true. And more important that today men think there’s no need to be a gentleman, no need to show their admiration, their gratitude to women NO NEED.... and i can understand why the things are like that: Maybe because today women are different and not like they were during the KNIGTHS’ and LADIES’ times.... May be the gender revolution brought them to the equality with men....equality of rights , equality of speech . nowadays women can drive a car, can fly into the space , can take their seats in the parliament, can earn much more money than their husbands , but first of all and mostly she always remains a Woman. And may be nowadays men feel this equality status of women and they find there’s no need to protect, to show their care to this kind of strong woman, no need to fight for her, no need to solve what she wants what she feels, because the times are indeed different now. But What if every man just for a moment stops and thinks about great acts which each of them can do during the day ....what if the man helps the old woman to cross the road, what if he stops and let the woman pass the entrance first, what if he helps the old to carry the heavy bag ..And what if each of these women can feel that they r women , no matter how strong they might be seen and there is always a man who will Protect and show his care and what if the man can finally feels himself a MAN.

Do not forget people whom you love

Today i saw a movie which kept me crying through the whole final part....It was the "Hachiko: A Dog's Story"...An amazing story about a dog and his master.... about dog's loyalty, love and faith to his master....
..the screenplay is adapted from a Japanese film made 20 years ago, which itself was based on the well-known story, i would say a Legend from the 1930s about an Akita( a dog) that came to the train station in Tokyo to wait for his master every day for 10 years after the man died.


..poor doog couldnt accept that the master had been died , Hachiko couldnt accept the fact that he didnt have to meet its master in the station every day at 5 o'clock.....the whole 10 years after his death he used to come to that station.....untill he died himself too....


....its a really touching story,,, and more touchy is the fact that it is based on the real story ...
....after that movie i asked myself :'' Why people, being on a higher level of consciousness, cant be so faithfull, devoted as the dogs are....why they lie, betray, hurt, forget those ones whom they love...."...and i couldnt find the answer...the only thing which was flying in my mind were the words of one poet :
"The more I see of people, the more I like dogs".


In conclusion, I would add the phrase from that movie :" Do not forget people whom you love"...i guess this is the secret or may be even the formula of our existence....


............be happy

Великие мелочи

Всегда тяжело расставаться с тем, что уже вошло в твою жизнь,Великие мелочи, успевшие стать неотъемлемой частью твоего существования,становятся такими могущественными, что начинают управлять твоей судьбой, твоей жизнью, и, в конце концов, тобой. Психологи дают определение таким явлениям, называя психологической зависимостью. Да уж, еще какой! Ведь если привязываешься к чему-то или к кому-то, начинаешь любить, а начинаешь любить - значит, боишься потерять. И эта боязнь отнюдь не из за собственнических побуждений, а просто потому что ты боишься пустоты внутри себя, пустоты, которая образуется после расставания.

Random thoughts

I think that people go through a lot in life. and the things that we go through, whatever they may be, simply just make us stronger in the long run... that is, if we actually take what it is we have learned from our mistakes and teach ourselves what NOT to do in the future. i have gone through a lot difficulties, and to be completely honest, i am still going through a lot right now..im loosing the most important thing in my life .. my faith in people. i think it stuck somewhere so far, somewhere In the deadlock. Without trust there s no start, there s nothing. And i think people behave themselves just coz they Want to behave like that, and nothing more. Coz if its not right theory, misunderstandings could be solved....its just because in a couples someone is always has more previleges then the other....someone is more loved than the other.... the other person’s feeling rnt accounted for. Thats it & ntg more. at the end of the day, you look at yourself in the mirror and see who you really are. stripped of all the distractions in life. And suddenly realize: God whats happening with me? In such moments u realize there was always someone in ur path for help....Grandma, i miss you so much, dear, i need ur advices so much.....if only u could appear in my dreams to give a hint what way is the right for me....i miss u so much....

different worlds

Big difference



Still, we are from different planets!




Please, talk about something!


She: "What do you feel now? What did you think when u saw me the first time? Do you miss me when I'm not around? " Women eager to know what is inside the beloved’s soul.


He : "Oh no! Only not discussion of relationship! Maybe I better tell her that my boss got me? Or about a new cool Ferrari, which I saw yesterday on the street and that I probably never will get? "







Buy while you can!


She - Shop Tour along the favorite stores – is the perfect plan for Saturday. Walk through the shopping center, try on, touch, smell ... You will probably not buy anything, but as compensation cosher up urself with latte of some cherry syrup

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He - the Word "shops" and "hell" for a man are synonymous. Psychologists say: "Man does not go shopping. He just buys, and that’s it. He just does not understand what is good in shopping. The man has a purpose. For example, he knows that he needs new pants. Then he goes and buys them. "







You do not notice Anything?


She changed her hair style , bought new underwear, has lost five pounds - he had not noticed ANY-thing. At least he had not said a single word, like a compliment. It hurts terribly ... But you always notice the most minor changes in his appearance. Even the difference between morning and evening stubble on his face.



He - "What is it? Well, yes, nice ... But she's not a dog for being continually praised ... "









Why should one say "I will call you" and then just not to call?


She : "Maybe he tells the same to everyone , in order not to offend them?" You're constantly checks your mobile for missed calls, but the phone remains silent. After two days waiting you curse all the men in the world and go out with your friends in a cafe.






He: Yes, he promised to call. But now he has blockage at work, or a best friend’s birthday, or he is so tired that he could only sit in front of a TV set and mindlessly wander through the TV channels. Four days later, he remembers the promise, rings and gets surprised by your cold tone.






Call a spade a spade


She: You meet one and a half months, everything is excellent ,but he never introdused you to his friends as his girlfriend, and it really hurts... you do not understand: if you are a couple or just fellow travelers, who spend good time but for the moment? He says nothing.


He: He thinks you are a wonderful girl, with whom he feels very good (otherwise he would not be here). And he doesn’t think about anything else.







I already told you about this for 100 times!


She: You already tired of repeating that you get awfully nervous when he comes home late, that you do not like to spend each night by the TV and his resent permanent harmless flirting with other women when you're near. Your patience came to an end, and you get out.


He: "Well, whatis it now?" Why did she go? Another caprice? Of course, we had some problems, but who are not there? "








I'm dying!


She: you both caught a cold. But you haven’t buy medicines at the same time, and you continue to work heroically, to clean house and cook, but still care for him. You still, of course, love him, but such behavior you refuse to understand.






He: "Just a cold??!!! No! Most likely, this is a rare variant of bird flu, or even something worse!!! She should be happy that I had woken up in the morning, the other guys in my place would long ago have fallen into a coma! "






Hello ! Hello!


She: sometimes you think it's time to take some exotic language courses, but it is not clear - which. Otherwise, how else you can explain to him that he should take out the trash or change a light bulb? In your native language, he probably does not understand ... But how to convey that, instead of an hour of a peeling potatoes and cooking beefsteaks, you'd be happy went tonight in some cozy restaurant?


He: "And when, im sorry, she said this? I would immediately throw garbage, repair the bulb and celebrate it all in a small restaurant, if she told me straight out what she wanted. And I only remember this :"You're not helping me" and "In our relationship there became no place for a little romance..." I do not understand what it is! I do not agree! "


Just together


She :"In my view, we had not done anything together long ago. Maybe we should spend the weekend at a wellness center, or go out of town by car. Perhaps I'll call and book a room for us. He must be so happy. "


He: "What?!!!!! Weekend in the silly wellness center?!!! Reservations can not be undone? She will probably be upset if we were not going ... I have absolutely no time. Also, something knocks on the carburetor; I have to go into service! "






Saving drowning


She: you are driving on unfamiliar road ther’s no browser, and you get lost. The idea that you had in mind: to stop and ask the first man who had been caught, how to get to your destination. But nothing of the sort! Your man is sure that he is on the right track and after a minute or two you'll be on the spot! And this has been going on for over an hour ...


He : to ask someone the way? It is useless, because everything is clear! " He – is a master of the situation. Maybe he’s just found the shortest path!






Pity me ...


She: At work, everything goes wrong, you think of the dismissal, the headmistress read a lecture in the presence of colleges, and now you want only one thing – to cry a little on your beloved’s shoulder .



He: "Any problems? It's time to act! You must talk to the boss, and if it does not work - quit and find a new job, if there's nothing you can fix in the present work. "








Cinema is not for everyone


She: a new fim has released with Hugh Grant and Sandra Bullock? You wants so much to watch it, together with your beloved, preferably during the film all the time to embrace or at least holding hands!




He "Who?" Hugh Grant? I'm not a gay! No thanks, I'd better go to the new film with Jackie Chan or Bruce Willis at the worst. These guys are not likely to act in something tearful, snotty.






Give me something!


She: when your relationship had all just started, he gave the flowers and cute plush toys ... And now? Never mind. He even forgot to congratulate you on the anniversary of your meeting. Do you think that he'll no longer loves or loves less ... day by day





He "Well do I have to buy her love? Or prove mine by material means? And the dates… I have a bad memory in general. "